Sooner or later your gonna want to try the other place…. Do it on a dark towel — a butt sex towel! I am not interested in inflicting pain on anyone. Yet, it has to be done right and with the right person. If you approach it with fear, your anal sphincter muscles will clamp shut, and forcing them open against your will is definitely going to hurt. Also had kind of a grainy feel, hard to explain.
You will not be able to tell if he's damaging anything because you won't feel any pain.
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I caution that you need to trust him and be very confident to have anal sex with him. Do it on a dark towel — a butt sex towel! It will feel so damn good if both of you as a giver and receiver doing it right. I mean common, seriously? Anal sex can be incredibly painful and even has some health risks, so do your research and do it right, or skip it altogether. This page may be out of date.