Be skeptical if he only wants to hang out when you're hooking up and if he's quick to leave when you're finished. There's plenty more where he came from. Went no-contact and kicked him to the curb. See if he only contacts you after dark. I classify attractiveness into two categories: They are looking for convenience and the easiest way to gratify their needs. A Anonymous Mar 13,
His real agenda is only to have sex with you.
10 Signs He Only Wants to Have Sex with You!
So, if you frequently have the experience of telling a friend, "He seemed so charming and interested in a relationship but turned out to be interested in only one thing," - then you're missing the warning signs: If you think a guy you like is using you, there are some behaviors and patterns you can look out for that will help confirm your suspicion. Is he willing to wait? Or if you considered trying out that new sexual position? All he need is sex from me so I can't be with him anymore.